Ladies, how do you like to be licked?
Slow swirls? Long luscious laps? Fast and furious flicks? Do you like to lie back and let him do all the work, or would you rather sit on his face? Do you want oral sex with cream or champagne? Should he move his tongue sideways or up and down? And do you make sure he never, ever stops until you're ready?
In Ancient Rome , fellatio was considered profoundly taboo.  Sexual acts were generally seen through the prism of submission and control. This is apparent in the two Latin words for the act: irrumare (to penetrate orally), and fellare (to be penetrated orally). Under this system, it was considered to be abhorrent for a male to perform fellatio, since that would mean that he was penetrated (controlled), whereas receiving fellatio from a woman or another man of lower social status (such as a slave or debtor) was not humiliating. The Romans regarded oral sex as being far more shameful than, for example, anal sex – known practitioners were supposed to have foul breath and were often unwelcome as guests at a dinner table.